|Is this hot?|
I dunno its what came up
when I Googled
But friendship - thats a whole other ball game. And nowhere near enough emphasis is placed on this.
True friendship is looking at another person and liking how they think, their sense of humour, their funny way they say things. It's getting into a heated debate but still respecting them afterwards, being driven damn crazy by something odd they do but then giggling like crazy at some in-joke. It's being able to talk until stupid o'clock and still having stuff to share the next day.
I suspect many people may say "But that's love! That's exactly what I see in my wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend!"
And THAT gentle reader is why the truest of loves are born out of friendships in my opinion. However don't be mistaken that every friendship means love. That's how to miss out on some of the best relationships you may ever have.
Don't ever underestimate being valued as a friend. Often there is much more value to be placed in that then there is in "you're so beautiful/sexy/cute".
And so in a roundabout way, we come back to the age old question;
"Can a Man and Woman ever be friends?"
You tell me gentle reader.....you tell me....because I would love to hear your opinions.